by rsyadmin | Sep 11, 2017 | Blog, Problems and Solutions, Relationships and Self-esteem, Resources for You
As I’ve explained in my last post about relationships, the inner energetic process we go through when we experience a relationship crisis is the same as when we go through a breakup. We have to let go of what is not ours, of all the needs and expectations, and...
by rsyadmin | Sep 1, 2017 | Blog, Problems and Solutions, Relationships and Self-esteem, Resources for You
A relationship – and that’s the same for a love relationship as for a friendship – should bring out the best in us. It should help us see our strengths and resources, be joyful, laugh, feel good about ourselves, and support us in good and in bad...
by rsyadmin | Jul 19, 2017 | Blog, Family Constellations, Problems and Solutions, Relationships and Self-esteem, Resources for You
Being present for others’ suffering One of the hardest things is to watch someone we love struggle, and not being able to help. For example, seeing your child sick or angry, and knowing things have to take its course, there is nothing you can do to speed it up...
by rsyadmin | Feb 9, 2017 | Blog, Problems and Solutions, Relationships and Self-esteem, Resources for You
Lately I’ve been very aware of the fact that what we really want in our relationships is closeness. So maybe you’re lucky and when you ask yourself, “do I feel close (enough) to the people I love”, the answer is yes. But maybe you have to answer no, even though you...
by rsyadmin | Jan 7, 2017 | Blog, Relationships and Self-esteem, ReSource Yourself© News
What makes a therapist really good? For a few years now, when you ask me what is the one most important thing that distinguishes a good therapist, I have been answering LOVE. Now that sounds a little extreme, you think? When you are loving and accepting with the...
by rsyadmin | Dec 7, 2016 | Blog, Family Constellations, Problems and Solutions, Relationships and Self-esteem
I love growing as a therapist and a human being. My newest source of inspiration is a course of family constellations, a systemic method which rather than looking only at the individual, tries to give solutions to difficult symptoms or problems in the light of the...
